Thoughts on Love
Hmmm…I’m not sure how to start. Let me just be practical and not be sappy on this one.
Love…yeah that thing called love. What is it? Is it only a thought? Is it a feeling? Or is it a mix of both? Speaking from experience, I can say it’s both.
Love is when you think of the other person always. I mean think of her needs. Be concerned on what she feels. Make an effort to surprise her. Basta doing everything that would make you see her sweet smile of appreciation.
Love is also about improving for each other. I say improve because some people might say that “love is not about changing, it’s accepting each other’s faults blah blah”. Yes it’s true that you accept each other’s faults but if something can be done to improve it(faults) di ba mas better na ganun? I mean don’t we want things to be better?
Compatibility also plays a role. If you’re personalities compliment each other, that’s a good sign. But if it doesn’t these 2 people would have to work doubly hard to make things work. I’m not saying that everytime you have to date someone find out his/her sign and take compatibility tests online..not in that way. You’ll know when the 2 of you are together. If you can relate with each other, then that’s a good start.
Love is not all about blaming each other for mistakes, it’s about how to make things work. Reaching for a compromise would be the best bet.
Well probably this all I have to say for now muna, I can’t type everything that I have learned from love.
